Children with callous-unemotional antisocial behavior have a kind of learning disability: they don't update on punishment, only on reward. So when parents see nothing working and escalate — taking away toys, spanking, berating, isolating — they destroy the only thing that could actually help, which is the child's attachment and desire to stay in relationship with them. One of the best predictors of escalating antisocial behavior is how harshly the child has been punished.
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