Greene's Eduardo observation reveals a paradox at the heart of attraction: the harder you try to impress, the less attractive you become, because self-focus broadcasts insecurity. Eduardo's power came from being entirely absorbed in the moment rather than monitoring his own performance. This applies far beyond romance — to sales, leadership, and any interaction where you want someone to open up to you.
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