The mainstream Western practice of leaving babies to cry it out is sold as teaching self-soothing, but it may actually teach the opposite: that sadness and anger are unacceptable emotions that earn withdrawal of love. A baby whose parents don't come when they're upset learns to suppress negative feelings rather than process them, shutting down internally instead of developing genuine emotional resilience. Real self-soothing comes from being consistently comforted, not from learning that no one will respond.
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